
To answer the question a little look into history is needed:
Reconciliation was cited as one of the major goals that the Prime Minister put forth, one of the most important things he must accomplish while in office.
Yet during the Democrat led coalition’s time in power their actions often seemed to be at odds with this goal. In fact one can make the arguments that many of their actions have ensured that reconciliation has failed.
Why do I say this?
Because reconciliation begins with truth. Instead we see the most draconian methods employed in this country to halt freedom of speech and freedom of expression since the days of dictatorship. I can quote you stats, thousand percent increases in blocked website, closure of radio stations, mass censorship of the Internet but that information can be easily obtained. The real question is how does reconciliation occur when one side feel like they’ve been silenced and disenfranchised.
Furthermore the democrats come to hate this notion that there is a class war saying that there are rich and poor on both sides. I absolutely agree there are rich and poor on both sides. But then when it comes time to justify or explain why the red shirts are so popular the revert back to “Thaksin’s populist policies placating the poor, hes brainwashing the masses.” So what about the middle class and rich who support the red shirts why do they support him? Where did they go?
But is the other side guilt free? Definitely not. No one is. The rhetoric on the red stage was one of hate, anger and insults. I do not attempt to justify it but I will say this, one can empathize with the people who follow those courses of rhetoric, who eat into the inflammatory words from the mouth of the red leaders and believe it too, not because the rhetoric is right, but because it is easy to bite into hatred when one feels cheated or wronged.
I disagree with some peers who view that the red masses as brainwashed because they are not brainwashed but feel (and with some justification) disenfranchised and powerless and thus more vulnerable to all forms of conspiracy theories and rhetoric’s of hate.
That being said their methods were crude, their rhetoric destructive and their logic questionable. During the protests at Rajprasong there was a big sign across the stage that said “Nonviolent Protest.” But that logic is incomprehensible to me, their blockade of Rajprasong was inflammatory and provocative; it wasn’t any better than the PAD airport blockade. Then they tried to use Reverend King or Gandhi’s image to evoke local and global sympathies. And while civil disobedience was a part of King and Gandhi’s strategy sure, let me just remind you that the time period between Rosa Parks refusing to move in a bus to the time the civil rights act of 1964 was signed was 9 years. You cannot cheapen or shorten history to fit your agenda.

So can reconciliation occur in this political climate?
The answer is no. Listening to last night’s speeches, listening to red shirts on the street, no. There is too much ego, too much pride too much face to lose in what has tantamount to a game with the players being politics and the stakes being the people and the country.
Reconciliation will not happen because we are broken. How are we broken? I’ve stood at the multicolored rallies, I’ve stood at the red rallies and I’ve stood at the PAD rallies. What they’re told is the other sides are animals, terrorists, that they’re not even human. Look at the vote no campaigns look what people are being likened to. Dehumanizing the enemy is a vital tool because when you’ve justified your hatred it is easy to become oblivious to their plight, their worries, their concerns. Dehumanizing the enemy is a vital tool because when you no longer empathize with the other side it is easy to buy into your side’s rhetoric and it makes it easier to justify violence and bloodshed. The leaders behind this mess have never pulled a trigger, thrown a grenade or held a dying comrade. They merely have to sell their ideas and people will do it for them.
I’m sorry but the people that died in April and May of last year, the people that continue to die for whatever cause aren’t those born with a silver spoon or in places of power. The soldiers that got hit by m79s in Khok Wua, the civilians that got shot by snipers in wat prathum and Rajprasong have more in common with each other than the politicians and leaders and causes they are dying for. The irony of this whole mess is that a yellow shopkeeper in yaowarat, a redshirt farmer in Ubon and a conscripted soldier in regiment 11 probably share more of the same worries, fears and dreams than the red shirt leaders, democrat mps and astv owners playing golf at RBSC. The irony of this whole mess is that the enemies of the people are not each other, or democracy, or the institution but the people who would exploit their lives and their labour to maintain their grips on power.
Reconciliation occurs when both sides bend but here both sides would break before they would bend. Leaders of both sides think Reconciliation serves no one.
And don’t get me wrong for one-minute reconciliation is a selfish notion. You can wax philosophical about the spirit of reconciliation and the togetherness of nation blablabla. Reconciliation is selfish because it will only happen when both sides realize they would lose much more in dogmatic, unilateral forays than if they work together. Right now both sides of the political spectrum think that in losing they loose everything and in winning they win everything. What they fail to see is that if one side wins, the country, as a whole will loose. We’re the sick man of Southeast Asia right now and our remedy requires sacrifice. Something no-one in power is willing to do.